Table Manners餐桌禮儀

在台灣把筷子插進飯裡是大忌,在日本也是——因為那是祭拜的樣子。禮儀多半有理由。

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Family Dinner家庭晚餐

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逐字稿(15 段)
  1. 1Welcome to dinner at a Taiwanese home. Let's learn some table manners.歡迎來到台灣家庭的晚餐。一起來學餐桌禮儀吧。
  2. 2This is the host. She cooked dinner for everyone tonight.這位是主人,她今晚為大家煮了晚餐。
  3. 3Grandpa is the elder at this table. In Taiwan, we wait for the elders to eat first.爺爺是這桌的長輩。在台灣,要等長輩先開動。
  4. 4The youngest child invites the elders to eat first. That is polite.由最小的孩子請長輩先吃,這樣很有禮貌。
  5. 5In Taiwan, sharing dishes is normal. Everyone takes food from this shared plate.在台灣,大家一起吃菜很正常。每個人都從這盤共食的菜夾菜。
  6. 6Use serving chopsticks for shared dishes, not your own. This rule is about hygiene.共食的菜要用公筷,不要用自己的筷子。這條規矩跟衛生有關。
  7. 7When you stop eating, lay your chopsticks across the bowl or on a rest.不吃的時候,把筷子橫放在碗上或筷架上。
  8. 8Never stand your chopsticks upright in a bowl of rice!千萬不要把筷子直插在飯碗裡!
  9. 9Upright chopsticks look like incense burning for the dead. That would really upset an East Asian host.直插的筷子看起來像祭拜死者的香,會讓東亞的主人很不舒服。
  10. 10Don't point at people with your chopsticks. Pointing at people is rude in most cultures.不要用筷子指人。在多數文化裡,指著別人是無禮的。
  11. 11In Japan, you may slurp noodles. It shows you enjoy them. In Britain, it is impolite.在日本,吃麵可以吸出聲音,代表吃得很開心。在英國卻被認為不禮貌。
  12. 12Western manners: a crossed knife and fork means still eating. Side by side means finished.西式禮儀:刀叉交叉表示還在吃,並排放表示吃完了。
  13. 13In many Western restaurants, the napkin goes on your lap as soon as you sit down.在許多西式餐廳,一坐下就要把餐巾放在腿上。
  14. 14Most important of all: say thank you to the person who cooked.最重要的是:跟煮飯的人說謝謝。
  15. 15Now it's your turn. Walk around the table and click on anything you see.現在換你了。繞著餐桌走一圈,點點看你看到的每樣東西。

Rules With Reasons有理由的規矩

Table manners look like a list of random rules, but most of them exist for a reason.餐桌禮儀看起來像一堆隨機的規定,但大部分都有原因。

Some are about hygiene, some are about sharing fairly, and some carry a meaning that would upset people.有些跟衛生有關,有些跟公平分享有關,有些則帶著會讓人不舒服的意義。

Sticking chopsticks upright in a bowl of rice is the strongest example. It looks like incense burning for the dead, so it is avoided in Taiwan, China, Japan and Korea.把筷子直插在飯碗裡是最強烈的例子。那看起來像祭拜死者的香,所以在台灣、中國、日本和韓國都要避免。

Rules also differ between countries, and neither side is wrong. Knowing the difference is what matters.不同國家的規矩也不一樣,而且沒有哪一邊是錯的。知道差別在哪,才是重點。

The Ones Worth Knowing值得知道的幾條

Never stand chopsticks in rice筷子不要直插飯裡
Lay them across the bowl or on a rest instead. This is the one rule that would genuinely upset an East Asian host.改成橫放在碗上或筷架上。這是唯一一條真的會讓東亞主人不舒服的規矩。
Do not point or wave chopsticks不要用筷子指人或揮舞
Pointing at people with anything is rude in most cultures. Digging around in a shared dish to find the best piece is also frowned on.在多數文化裡用任何東西指人都不禮貌。在共食的盤子裡翻找最好的一塊,也是不受歡迎的。
Wait for the elders等長輩先動筷
In Taiwan the youngest usually invites the elders to eat first. In Korea you also wait for the oldest person to lift their spoon.在台灣通常由最小的人請長輩先吃。在韓國也要等最年長的人先拿起湯匙。
Slurping depends on where you are吸麵的聲音看地方
In Japan, slurping noodles is normal and even shows enjoyment. In Britain or the United States it is considered impolite.在日本,吸麵發出聲音很正常,甚至代表吃得開心。在英國或美國則被視為不禮貌。
Knife and fork positions刀叉的擺法
In Western dining, crossing them on the plate means you are still eating. Laying them together side by side means you have finished.西式用餐時,刀叉交叉放在盤上表示還在吃。並排放在一起表示吃完了。

Same Action, Different Meaning同樣的動作,不同的意思

Action 動作Taiwan / Japan 台灣/日本Britain / USA 英國/美國
Slurping noodles 吸麵有聲Normal 正常(日本甚至是讚美)Impolite 不禮貌
Lifting the bowl 端起碗Normal 正常Unusual 少見
Sharing dishes 共食Normal 正常Less common 較少見
Finishing everything 吃光Polite 有禮貌Polite 有禮貌
Elbows on the table 手肘放桌上Not a big issue 不太在意Often corrected 常被糾正

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沒有哪一欄比較高級。這張表要練的是「同一個動作在不同地方意思不同」——這件事本身比背規矩重要。

Did You Know?你知道嗎?

  • The word manners comes from the same root as manual, meaning hand — it originally described how you handled yourself.manners 這個字和 manual(手的)同源,本來是在描述你怎麼「處置」自己。
  • Serving chopsticks exist so that people do not use their own chopsticks in a shared dish.公筷的存在,就是為了讓大家不要用自己的筷子夾共食的菜。
  • In many Western restaurants the napkin goes on your lap as soon as you sit down.在許多西式餐廳,一坐下就要把餐巾放在腿上。
  • Saying thank you to the person who cooked matters more than any of the other rules.跟煮飯的人說謝謝,比上面任何一條規矩都重要。

Key Words單字表

  • manners/ˈmæn.ɚz/n.

    禮儀

    Table manners differ by country.餐桌禮儀因國家而異。

  • polite/pəˈlaɪt/adj.

    有禮貌的

    Finishing your food is polite.把食物吃完是有禮貌的。

  • rude/ruːd/adj.

    無禮的

    Pointing at people is rude.用東西指人是無禮的。

  • chopsticks/ˈtʃɑːp.stɪks/n.

    筷子

    Lay the chopsticks across the bowl.把筷子橫放在碗上。

  • upright/ˈʌp.raɪt/adj. / adv.

    直立的

    Never stand them upright in rice.絕對不要把它們直插在飯裡。

  • incense/ˈɪn.sens/n.

    香

    It looks like burning incense.那看起來像在燒香。

  • hygiene/ˈhaɪ.dʒiːn/n.

    衛生

    Some rules are about hygiene.有些規矩跟衛生有關。

  • elder/ˈel.dɚ/n.

    長輩

    Wait for the elders to start.等長輩先開動。

  • slurp/slɝːp/v.

    吸食出聲

    In Japan you may slurp noodles.在日本可以吸麵出聲。

  • napkin/ˈnæp.kɪn/n.

    餐巾

    Put the napkin on your lap.把餐巾放在腿上。

  • shared/ʃerd/adj.

    共用的

    Use serving chopsticks for shared dishes.共食的菜要用公筷。

  • host/hoʊst/n.

    主人

    Thank the host before you leave.離開前謝謝主人。

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